The complex nature of women makes them highly unpredictable creatures. Since they are not cut from one identical mold, they often look for different qualities in the men they are looking to meet. In order to meet decipher the thoughts of a woman in your sights and take things to the next level, there are a few things every man should know when picking up women. Becoming a pick up artist does not happen overnight, but when you have the right plan and a little practice, you will be surprised at how easy it is to meet someone new.
1. Passion- Women love a man who is passionate. The key here is to talk about what you know. Whether it is football, food or literature, a man who can speak with conviction about his passion is a man who can keep the attention of the woman he is after.
2. Approachability- Be charming, kind and keep the sarcasm to a minimum until you know her well enough to know how she’ll react. Opening yourself to the possibility of new people with new ideas will make it easy for ladies to open up to you.
3. Location- the first step to meeting women is to go to where they are. They won’t just fall into your lap, no matter how hard you wish for it. Keep in mind the type of women you wish to meet and pick your place of approach from there. If you are looking for your future wife, do you really want to tell the story of how you met her in a go-go lounge?
4. Honesty- Disclose pertinent information as soon as it is logically possible (not necessarily the first date). You having kids may not be a deal breaker for her, unless you fail to tell her before the kids come for a weekend visit.
5. Alcohol- A cocktail or two, depending on your size, is fine to help ease your natural anxiety, but too many can make you sloppy an obnoxiously cocky. Once you have secured a date and are having cocktails together, it’s fine to throw back more than one, as long as she is indulging too.
6. Speed- Women tend to open up to a man more readily after he has shown an emotional interest in her. Once you have done this, read into her body language for signs that show you she is ready to get physical. True seduction can sometimes be a stumbling block for guys once they make the first connection, but there are many ways to make your new lady melt.
7. Confidence- This is the one quality that all women look for in a man. Realizing your self-worth and presenting yourself accordingly will draw a woman in like a moth to a flame. Rejection can throw a wrench into this plan, but you must realize that while she wasn’t looking for someone like you, there will be a lady out there who is.
Following these few guidelines will not only allow you to meet and pick up women, but also to enjoy the time that you spend with them. Also, you will most likely find that the women you have met will be of a higher standard when you follow these steps, and they will see you for the man you really are.
) I want you to listen to yourself as you read this article. Your inner voice will teach you more than I or any other dating ever will.